Everyone’s got an opinion. That fact, we cannot change, nor should we. Sure things would run a lot more smoothly if we all agreed on everything, but where’s the fun in that? But how can we deal with a naysayer who opposes our lifestyle without taking it personally?

As a homeschooling family, we’ve faced many moments of criticism from people who just don’t get it. And they’re not shy about it either.

So, how do we deal with naysayers?

First, let me give you an idea of when and where these opposing people may pop into your lives. Then I’ll tell you how I’ve come to handle these situations with grace.

When I first thought of the idea to homeschool my son, I admittedly felt nervous to bring it up. I was already aware of certain stigmas associated with homeschooling. Kids who homeschool are less social and more awkward than those who don’t. Homeschooling was for super elite religious groups and are otherwise extremely sheltered.

Can You Tell I Grew Up In Public School?

Yep, I too wasn’t fully aware of what homeschooling was all about (though not a naysayer). I had never been in that environment. I also didn’t know anyone else who was homeschooled.

What I did know though, was how terrible my public school upbringing was. I was pushed through the system with barely any individual instruction. Yes, I excelled but in all honesty, it was because of my own drive to get out of my hometown.

So when my son was struggling, I knew from my own experience that continuing in public school wasn’t an option. I did my research and presented my idea to homeschool to my husband with facts and figures.

He quickly got on board and over the following months explaining to our families of our decision. Some were supportive and some were skeptical.

When Covid Hit We All Became Homeschoolers.

Everyone switched to homeschool and it took a lot of flack off our back. Still, I run into people all the time that ask why my kids aren’t in school during the day. Occasionally I’m hit with “aren’t you worried about socializing them?”

The fact is, a naysayer likely has no idea what homeschooling is like. I can say that as someone who also had no clue. So when I’m faced with a wave of questions, I answer them simply and move on. I don’t make it my responsibility to fully teach or convince them.

If the naysayer still disagrees than that’s okay. Wish them well and get back to doing you!